10 WAYS TO HOOK UP A MATURE WOMAN

Many younger men prefer the company of a mature older woman, which is understandable. Being with a mature woman has its benefits. Older women are more confident, have more experience, know what they want, and are often more sexually open than younger women. It can be hard to attract one though. You can’t use the same techniques on a mature woman as you would on a younger woman. They must be approached differently.

You also need a way to make them see you as a man who could be a potential sexual partner, and not just someone who is basically a child. It may be difficult to convince an older woman to take you seriously. Here are some tips for mature women dating.

Know where to look

It may be hard to find a mature older woman who’s interested in dating or hooking up with younger men. You can’t just go up to a random woman on the street and proposition her, after all. You can look in the normal pots like bars or hookup apps, but a place specifically for finding mature women to date like maturedating.ca will help you narrow down your search.

Give her a compliment

As a woman gets older, she may not receive as many compliments as she got when she was young. Pick something you like about the woman you’re interested in and give her a sincere compliment. Say something specific. Don’t say something generic like, “You’re gorgeous.” Tell her she’s funny or smart. Try not to give appearance-based compliments.

Remember that a mature woman will be able to see through any trickery! Don’t give and empty compliment. Say something sincere. Sincerity will win her over to your side much more easily.

Confidence

Older women are called cougars for a reason: they can sense weakness and will prey upon it. Mature women want men who are secure and direct. They don’t have the time or inclination to waste time with insecure or wishy-washy guys.

Show older women that you are confident and self-assured. A mature woman won’t even consider you as a partner if she senses weakness. If you aren’t very confident, fake it till you make it.

There are certain things all confident people do. Hold your head up high, have good posture, and roll your shoulders back. Give yourself a quick pep talk before you approach this woman. Pick a celebrity who you admire for their self-confidence and try to act like him. Remember to make eye contact.

Be honest with her

And older woman has much more experience seeing through lies than a woman your own age. Don’t lie to her about your age or pretend to be someone you’re not in order to attract her. Older women are great at sensing duplicity. Be yourself with her and show her the real you. Most mature women enjoy the youthful exuberance of younger men, so show her that youthful side. Show her some fun.

Mature women are very skilled at sensing tomfoolery with men, so know that if you lie to her or are otherwise dishonest, it will most likely backfire badly. Don’t be vague or confusing. Be honest and truthful without being rude or vulgar, and you’ll get extra points.

Make her feel sexy

Mature women usually hear about how their clocks are ticking, and it can make some women feel self-conscious. To date a mature woman, make her feel desired. Tell her how sexy she is. Tell her exactly what about her turns you on. If you make her feel appreciated, she’s more likely to be interested in you.

However, make sure you say this in a direct, yet respectful, manner. Don’t be rude or crude, as this is a huge turn-off for older women.

Be playful

Mature women are often attracted to younger men because of their youthful energy. If a woman wanted a fuddy-duddy, she’d pick a man older than her. Mature women have so many responsibilities and are often unable to just let loose and be playful. If you’re playful with her and help awaken her inner 20-year-old, she’ll love how being with you makes her feel.

Have an open mind

If a mature woman is interested in you, chances are she’s open minded. She may want to try things with you sexually that more conservative men her own age won’t want to do. She’s likely independent and wants a man who’s more fun and less stuck in his ways. Don’t judge or belittle your mature woman for anything she does or likes. Be willing to try new things with her. If you keep it fun for her, she’s more likely to keep coming back for more.

Don’t mention her age right away

You shouldn’t ever bring up a woman’s age, but especially if there’s a significant age gap, don’t bring it up. It may cause her to feel self-conscious. If it comes up casually in conversation, say something like, “Oh, I wouldn’t have guessed.” If she tells you to guess her age guess down a few years to make her feel good.

Just don’t say anything corny or tacky in relation to her age

Show her how independent you are

Even though a mature woman may enjoy your youthful energy, she does not want to be your babysitter. Show her you can take care of yourself and you’re capable to doing things on your own. Toot your own horn a little bit, but don’t be arrogant.

The only exception to this rule is if you know for a fact that this older woman is interested in being a sugar mama. Some older women may be interested in providing for you.

Ask her questions

Show an interest in getting to know the woman you’re talking to. Ask her questions and engage her in conversation. Mature women like to be intellectually stimulated. She her you’re interested in more than just physical intimacy by engaging her in deep conversation. Try to remember the answers she gives. If you can recall a small detail of a conversation you previously had, she’ll be impressed by your attentiveness and thoughtfulness.